Life is Inevitable. It’s either you fight for your fate of live with what destiny have for you. Tons of people do not know what destiny wants for them. They just enjoy their life and live in their own path.
Man has no grip with what destiny has for him. We are not even asked to what kind of life we would have once we have been born. Our life is only lent to us. We are expected to trust our fate with what it has stored for us. But what if our destiny bumps in head to head with our happiness? Do we still need to trust our fate? Or fight for our happiness?
If our fate is predestined for us, where would our freedom place in that? How can we change the course of our life if we are destined to die from a disease or a lost bullet? How can we make our dreams come true if fate collides with our life? What if we are not meant to have happiness? Could we still live our life with that?
Why should we LOVE if fate is not on our side?
Man bumps into many people defining with what those people have changed in our life. Some gives us wonderful memories that we do not want to forget while some leaves without any reason at all and sometimes leave us with just only a glance. For some lucky people, they had a chance to meet someone they want live with the rest of their life. Fate would give them a life that many people would hear only on fairy tales. Until destiny wants to play games again. Problems came again which eventually lead into stupid fights over simple yet repeated wrong doing’s from the both of you. Fate wants the both of you to part but still the both of you still wants to hold on until the end. The both of you are willing to fight for your love and you’ll do anything just so destiny would see and feel your happiness.
Sometimes, fate would just give up giving you struggles in your relationship then eventually will lead to your Happily Ever After. But n reality, not everyone has a Happy Ending. Oftentimes, fate would play with you until you give up. No, let me rephrase that. No matter how much love you have for someone, fate would always get in your way. It’s either one would give up or one would die for love.
I am writing this blog not to discourage the person who is reading this but because I want to open your eyes and distinguish REALITY from Fantasy. No matter how much we try, there would always be something either a person or a thing that would make our life miserable for us. I am simply stating that every person should GRAB every opportunity to be happy… even if it is not temporary. Nothing really last forever in this temporary life that God lent to us. Even a beautiful book has its final chapter and the words THE END on the final page.
We are not perfect. We can never change the way of life. Death, separation from our loved ones, heartbreaks… we do not have the power to stop or delay it. But to Live is to Love. We get hurt, we let it heal then get up again and fall in love all over again. Fall in Love. Be happy. Even if fate do not want you to, just continue to love until destiny takes pity on you and allows you to be happy— even for just a while.